Tips to Help Kids Refocus After the Holidays

The holidays bring joy, excitement, and plenty of activity, but they can also leave families feeling a little out of sync once the celebrations end. Whether it’s new toys filling every corner or disrupted routines making naps and bedtimes a challenge, it’s common for kids (and parents!) to feel unsettled after the festive whirlwind.

The good news? This transitional time is the perfect opportunity to bring back balance while encouraging creativity, calm, and play. With a few thoughtful strategies, you can help your little ones—whether they’re infants, toddlers, or preschoolers—reset in a way that feels refreshing and fun.

From decluttering toys to setting up imaginative play and re-establishing routines, this blog is packed with tips to make the post-holiday season a rewarding time for your family.

A Hands-On Approach to Decluttering

After the holidays, many parents face the same challenge: too many toys and not enough space. Instead of letting the overwhelm take over, why not turn this into a teaching moment? Decluttering can be a valuable experience for kids.  It teaches them about sharing, decision-making, and appreciating what they have—skills they’ll carry with them for life. Plus, getting them involved makes the process smoother (and dare we say, fun!).

Start by sorting toys into three simple categories: keep, donate, and store for later. Lay a blanket or two on the floor and invite your child to help decide where each toy belongs. For preschoolers, this can become a game: “Should this toy stay with us, help another child, or take a little break?” Even toddlers can point to or place toys in specific piles with a bit of guidance. Encourage them to think about what they play with most and gently suggest letting go of items they’ve outgrown or forgotten. For infants, decluttering is more about creating a calm, uncluttered space. Rotate their toys to keep things fresh while removing items they’ve outgrown.

Keep the mood positive and celebrate their choices, no matter how small. Saying things like, “You’re doing such a great job deciding!” helps keep them engaged. The bonus? Fewer toys on the shelf make it easier for your little one to enjoy the toys they love, without feeling overwhelmed by clutter. It’s a win-win for everyone!

Keeping Playtime Fresh with Fewer Toys

If you’ve ever noticed your child play intensely with a toy for a day or two, only for it to sit untouched for weeks afterward, you’re not alone. Young children naturally get bored when they’re surrounded by too many options. That’s where toy rotation comes in—a simple strategy that keeps playtime fresh and engaging without needing a constant stream of new toys.

Start by selecting a handful of toys to keep within reach and store the rest in bins or boxes out of sight. Every couple of weeks (or whenever your child seems less interested in what’s available), swap out the current toys for “new” ones from the storage bin. For toddlers and preschoolers, it’s like getting a whole new collection of favorites without spending a dime.  For infants, rotating soft toys, rattles, and sensory items works the same way—plus, it helps expose them to a variety of textures, sounds, and colors over time.

This method helps kids focus more on the toys they have, encouraging deeper, more creative play. It also reduces clutter, making cleanup easier for everyone. To make it extra fun, you can turn the swap into a special event: “Let’s see what surprises we’ll bring out today!” With toy rotation, fewer options often lead to more joy, more focus, and a play space that feels fresh without the overwhelm.

Fun Ideas to Spark Imagination

When it’s too cold to head outside or everyone’s recovering from the holiday whirlwind, indoor play can be a lifesaver. The key is to think beyond traditional toys and tap into your child’s natural creativity and curiosity. By setting up simple activities that spark imagination and teamwork, you’ll keep kids entertained while helping them develop important social and problem-solving skills.

For toddlers, try creating a “build-a-town” setup with blocks, empty boxes, or even couch cushions. Encourage them to construct houses, bridges, or roads, and watch their little minds light up as they explain their designs. For preschoolers, collaborative games like setting up an “animal hospital” for stuffed toys or organizing a pretend restaurant teach them how to work with others while flexing their imaginative muscles.  Even infants benefit from imaginative play! Set up a sensory bin with safe, baby-friendly items such as soft fabrics, crinkly paper, or colorful scarves. Floor time with a baby-safe mirror or stacking toys can also captivate their attention while supporting development.

You can also introduce themed play bins using everyday items. For example, fill a container with scarves, hats, and costume jewelry to create a dress-up station, or gather kitchen tools for a pretend cooking session. Even something as simple as a laundry basket can turn into a pirate ship or a rocket with a bit of creativity! These activities don’t just keep kids busy—they nurture communication, cooperation, and confidence along the way.

Bringing Calm and Consistency Back

After the excitement and unpredictability of the holidays, kids thrive when things settle back into a routine. Young children feel more secure and confident when they know what to expect, and re-establishing consistent patterns can help ease the transition from festive chaos to everyday calm. The good news is, it doesn’t have to happen overnight—a little structure each day can make a big difference.

Start with the basics: meals, naps, and bedtimes. These anchor points in the day are great for building a sense of rhythm. For infants, this might mean focusing on regular feeding and nap times. Soft lighting, gentle music, or a calming bedtime routine can make transitions smoother for toddlers, simple visual aids like a picture chart of their daily routine can make it easier for them to understand what’s coming next. Preschoolers might enjoy helping to “plan” their day by choosing between two options for snack time or activities, giving them a sense of control while sticking to your framework.

Keep things gentle and flexible at first. If your child is resisting bedtime after late holiday nights, gradually shift it earlier in 15-minute increments instead of all at once. Celebrate small wins, like finishing breakfast on time or getting dressed without a fuss. With a bit of patience, routines become second nature, bringing back the calm your family needs to start the new year on the right foot.

Simple Ways to Help Them Reset

After the holidays, young children can feel a little out of sorts from all the excitement, late nights, and changes to their regular schedule. Teaching mindfulness—even at an early age—can help them find their calm and refocus. The beauty of mindfulness for little ones is that it’s not about sitting still for long periods; it’s about creating simple, relaxing moments that fit their world.

For infants, gentle rocking, baby massage, or even watching a sensory calm-down jar can create soothing moments.  For toddlers, start with a “breathing buddy” activity. Give them a small stuffed animal to place on their belly as they lie down and watch it rise and fall with each breath. This visual helps them connect with their breathing while turning it into a fun, gentle game. For preschoolers, try guided imagery by encouraging them to close their eyes and imagine blowing up a big balloon or floating on a cloud.

You can also create a sensory calm-down jar using water, glitter, and a clear bottle. Watching the glitter settle to the bottom after a good shake can be soothing for kids of all ages. Another idea? Add a few minutes of “quiet time” to their day with soft music, dimmed lights, or a favorite cozy spot. These little moments of mindfulness not only help kids reset but also teach them valuable skills for handling big emotions in the future.

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January 6th, 2025 | Parenting Tips